I believe I have found a good balance point with regard to the need to act before the window of opportunity closes. Not too much and not too little, but most significant for me is simply not just letting go of the possibility. That would be my normal response during a period of "recovery" such as this.
She IS expecting to hear from me later. More details down the road, if and when anything actually worth mentioning unfolds. That will be late Summer or sometime in the Fall. She'll be away for some time and I am very busy. In a way, it's perfect. I am very pleased with these particular results- not being dead in the water sulking, but not going through the motions with no real enthusiasm either. And I am not closing the door on other possibilities. I don't think I will ever do that again, until I feel really certain about someone. And it feels like that will take a while longer than this last time around.
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